When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.
So starting today…
1. Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists; it rewards people
who get things done.
2. Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself.
3. Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only
moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. Don’t miss it.
4. Give up complaining. – Do something about it.
5. Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
6. Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. Knowledge and
intelligence are both useless without action.
7. Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions
or your actions will ultimately own you.
8. Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do
nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake.
9. Give up saying, “I can’t.” – As Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can or you think you
can’t, you are right.”
10. Give up trying to be everything to everyone. – Making one person smile can change the world.
Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Start small. Start now.
11. Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity
arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which
means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
12. Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to
fail. Ironically, setting these small goals is what makes them fail.
13. Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the
most time with. If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever
could have been alone.
14. Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not
manage you. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking
wealth is measured in material objects.
15. Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life
depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for
what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your
life.
16. Give up making mountains out of molehills. – One way to check if something is worth mulling
over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five
years? If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
17. Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your
own expectations. Everything else will fall into place.
18. Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in
today’s society. For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well.
No amount of magic fairy dust replaces diligent, focused, hard work.
19. Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise. Over-deliver on everything
you do.
20. Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers.
They will never know how you feel unless you tell them.
21. Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say. Communicate
effectively.
22. Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the
one thing you can count on. So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason. It
won’t always be easy or obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.
23. Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world. We are all
equal. We breathe the same air. We get what we give. We get what we earn.
24. Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
25. Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your
own.
26. Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving! Simply take a long, relaxing walk or
commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program.
27. Give up junk food. – You are what you eat.
28. Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re
hungry.
29. Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and
drive. Don’t smoke. Etc.
30. Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives
you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities. Spend time with nice
people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
31. Give up being shy. – Network with people. Meet new people. Ask questions. Introduce
yourself.
32. Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first
impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way.
What they think and say about you isn’t important. What is important is how you feel about
yourself.
33. Give up trying to control everything. – Life is an unpredictable phenomenon. No matter how
good or bad things seem right now, we can never be 100% certain what will happen next. So do
you best with what’s in front of you and leave the rest to the powers above you.
34. Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your
horizons and break free of your comfort zone. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep
getting what you’re getting.
35. Give up following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on
achieving something worthwhile. Don’t find the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
36. Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right.
37. Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will
become.
38. Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities. – It’s okay to be
alone. It’s okay to do nothing sometimes. Think. Relax. Breathe. Be.
39. Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow
down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.
40. Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can
get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it. Think bigger. Keep the end in mind.
Do what you know in your heart is right.
41. Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.
Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with
the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention,
you’ll often find that you’re right.
42. Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway. So enjoy yourself and have a
little fun while you can.
43. Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re not passionate about. – Life is too
short for such nonsense. The right career choice is based on one key point: Finding hard work you
love doing. So if you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.
You’re on to something big. Because hard work isn’t hard when you concentrate on your
passions.
44. Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have. Many
people aren’t so lucky.
45. Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things. Remember, the
one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
46. Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attract the eyes.
Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. That’s when you’re beautiful.
47. Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not. Be yourself.
Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go
about their business.
48. Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different. – Nonconformity for the sake of
nonconformity is conformity. When people try too hard to be different, they usually end up being
just like everyone else who is trying to be different. Once again, be yourself.
49. Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t
do has an inherent risk.
50. Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too.
If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that
moment is now.
And remember, mistakes make us human, failures help us grow, hope keeps us going and love is the reason
we’re alive. So keep learning, loving and living. Never give up on yourself.
So starting today…
1. Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists; it rewards people
who get things done.
2. Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself.
3. Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only
moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. Don’t miss it.
4. Give up complaining. – Do something about it.
5. Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
6. Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. Knowledge and
intelligence are both useless without action.
7. Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions
or your actions will ultimately own you.
8. Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do
nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake.
9. Give up saying, “I can’t.” – As Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can or you think you
can’t, you are right.”
10. Give up trying to be everything to everyone. – Making one person smile can change the world.
Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Start small. Start now.
11. Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity
arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which
means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
12. Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to
fail. Ironically, setting these small goals is what makes them fail.
13. Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the
most time with. If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever
could have been alone.
14. Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not
manage you. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking
wealth is measured in material objects.
15. Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life
depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for
what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your
life.
16. Give up making mountains out of molehills. – One way to check if something is worth mulling
over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five
years? If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
17. Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your
own expectations. Everything else will fall into place.
18. Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in
today’s society. For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well.
No amount of magic fairy dust replaces diligent, focused, hard work.
19. Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise. Over-deliver on everything
you do.
20. Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers.
They will never know how you feel unless you tell them.
21. Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say. Communicate
effectively.
22. Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the
one thing you can count on. So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason. It
won’t always be easy or obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.
23. Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world. We are all
equal. We breathe the same air. We get what we give. We get what we earn.
24. Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
25. Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your
own.
26. Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving! Simply take a long, relaxing walk or
commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program.
27. Give up junk food. – You are what you eat.
28. Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re
hungry.
29. Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and
drive. Don’t smoke. Etc.
30. Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives
you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities. Spend time with nice
people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
31. Give up being shy. – Network with people. Meet new people. Ask questions. Introduce
yourself.
32. Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first
impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way.
What they think and say about you isn’t important. What is important is how you feel about
yourself.
33. Give up trying to control everything. – Life is an unpredictable phenomenon. No matter how
good or bad things seem right now, we can never be 100% certain what will happen next. So do
you best with what’s in front of you and leave the rest to the powers above you.
34. Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your
horizons and break free of your comfort zone. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep
getting what you’re getting.
35. Give up following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on
achieving something worthwhile. Don’t find the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
36. Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right.
37. Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will
become.
38. Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities. – It’s okay to be
alone. It’s okay to do nothing sometimes. Think. Relax. Breathe. Be.
39. Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow
down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.
40. Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can
get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it. Think bigger. Keep the end in mind.
Do what you know in your heart is right.
41. Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.
Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with
the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention,
you’ll often find that you’re right.
42. Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway. So enjoy yourself and have a
little fun while you can.
43. Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re not passionate about. – Life is too
short for such nonsense. The right career choice is based on one key point: Finding hard work you
love doing. So if you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.
You’re on to something big. Because hard work isn’t hard when you concentrate on your
passions.
44. Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have. Many
people aren’t so lucky.
45. Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things. Remember, the
one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
46. Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attract the eyes.
Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. That’s when you’re beautiful.
47. Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not. Be yourself.
Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go
about their business.
48. Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different. – Nonconformity for the sake of
nonconformity is conformity. When people try too hard to be different, they usually end up being
just like everyone else who is trying to be different. Once again, be yourself.
49. Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t
do has an inherent risk.
50. Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too.
If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that
moment is now.
And remember, mistakes make us human, failures help us grow, hope keeps us going and love is the reason
we’re alive. So keep learning, loving and living. Never give up on yourself.
